Is my ex boyfriend over me yet? What does he mean when he says those things?

My boyfriend and I were 14 days away from dating for 1 year. We were so close. Unfortunately, I was forced to break up with him because of my mom. One week after the break up, I ask him if he's alright, and he says he is. He also says that he can't go back. He also thinks that me talking to him means that I'm trying to get him back. I said that wasn't the case, but I secretly wanted him back. Then, the 2nd week of break up, we didn't talk for about 4 days, and he IMs me asking me how I'm doing, and I say that I'm not that good. I also told him to say something to me that will make me forget him forever. He said, "ok. I rarely think about you anymore. You should move on because if I could, so can you." When I heard that, I was heartbroken, and I told him that he doesn't know me, and he told me, "yeah, so find someone who does." I don't know if he really meant that. Inside me, there's still hope, and I still feel like he loves me, but I'm not sure. Recently, we were still talking online, and I told him that I was sick, and was shocked and told me take care of myself better. I was really happy when he told me that, but I'm not sure if he's just caring for me as a friend, or if he still loves me a lot. He told one of my friends that he still cares for me, too much. He also showed my friend that he cared for me by asking how I've been doing..etc. I really want to know if I still have a chance with him because I still love him, but I don't know if he still does because apparently, he found out the true reason I broke up with him, but he's not doing anything about it. If he did love me, and wanted me back, wouldn't he be showing it more? He keeps asking me, "What do you want me to do?" and I asked "What can you do?" he said, "Nothing." and I asked why, and he said, "I don't know how." then I asked, "Do you know what to do?" and he said "It is to not to do anything." I don't know what that means. Does that mean he can't be my boyfriend anymore? Or is he trying to make me tell him that I want him back, because I didn't say it word for word yet. What should I do? I really want him back. I don't know what to do because I don't know if he loves me anymore. Please help me as soon as possible. I'm still heartbroken.